{"id":768,"date":"2021-08-08T20:02:13","date_gmt":"2021-08-08T17:02:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.com\/?p=768"},"modified":"2021-08-08T20:02:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-08T17:02:13","slug":"vienas-megabaitas-apie-meile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/?p=768","title":{"rendered":"Vienas megabaitas apie meil\u0119"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Am\u017eiuje, kai vartojimas yra vienas pagrindini\u0173 veiksma\u017eod\u017ei\u0173 \u017emogaus gyvenime, mes pripratome, kad neveikian\u010dius daiktus greitai galime pakeisti, o viskas aplink turi mums teikti malonum\u0105. Kuomet santykiuose malonumas apma\u017eta, mes imame kelti klausim\u0105, galb\u016bt ry\u0161ys galutinai suvartotas ir laikas naujoms paie\u0161koms. Pamir\u0161tame, kad galime \u012fsiklausyti \u012f vienas kit\u0105 ir atrasti bendravim\u0105 naujai, \u017einoma, jei tik labai norime. Geri dalykai gyvenime neretai reikalauja pastang\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mes retai susim\u0105stome apie skirtumus tarp vyro ir moters, da\u017eniausiai tada, kai jau\u010diam\u0117s visai nesuprasti. Analizuojame, gromuliuojame situacijas ir bandome suprasti, kas buvo ne taip, jog neklupti ten pat du kartus. Kod\u0117l moterys, pasipasakojusios i\u0161gyvenimus, ne visada nori vyr\u0173 si\u016blom\u0173 situacij\u0173 sprendim\u0173, bet visada nori atjautos ir i\u0161klausymo? Ko vyrai tikisi i\u0161 moter\u0173? Kaip kei\u010diasi poros gyvenimas atsiradus vaikams?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kiek teko skaityti psichologini\u0173 knyg\u0173, labai da\u017enai yra apeliuojama \u012f m\u016bs\u0173 vaikyst\u0119, susiformavusias paradigmas, kurias ne\u0161iojam\u0117s su savimi kaip trafaretus ateities situacijoms. Nes\u0105moningai imam\u0117s tam tikr\u0173 vaidmen\u0173 arba j\u0173 ie\u0161kome kitose \u017emon\u0117se. Vyrai svarsto ko nori moterys, o moterys svarsto, ko nori pastarieji ir tik nedaugelis stengiasi rasti atsakymus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viduje turiu prielaid\u0105, kad kiekvienas psichologas ar psichiatras turim\u0105 informacij\u0105 perleid\u017eia per save ir j\u0105 adaptuoja skirtingai, mus suvokia ir narplioja skirtingai, tod\u0117l \u012f \u0161i\u0105 knyg\u0105 \u017ei\u016br\u0117jau ne kaip \u012f maldaknyg\u0119, o kaip \u012f daug kompetencijos turin\u010dio \u017emogaus nuomon\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Olegas Lapinas yra sertifikuotas psichiatras, psichoterapeutas, pediatras, d\u0117stytojas ir publicistas. Praktikuoja jau daugiau nei 30 met\u0173. Manau verta pasiklausyti tokio specialisto patarim\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Olegas Lapinas &#8211; vienas megabaitas apie meil\u0119<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/000000000001102456-59de84b86f869-asset-knyguklubas-cdb_kk_e22658e3b6dfaff5b60f86c461265f2b_p1-1.jpg?w=285\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-771\" width=\"166\" height=\"239\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am\u017eiuje, kai vartojimas yra vienas pagrindini\u0173 veiksma\u017eod\u017ei\u0173 \u017emogaus gyvenime, mes pripratome, kad neveikian\u010dius daiktus greitai galime pakeisti, o viskas aplink turi mums teikti malonum\u0105. Kuomet santykiuose malonumas apma\u017eta, mes imame kelti klausim\u0105, galb\u016bt ry\u0161ys galutinai suvartotas ir laikas naujoms paie\u0161koms. Pamir\u0161tame, kad galime \u012fsiklausyti \u012f vienas kit\u0105 ir atrasti bendravim\u0105 naujai, \u017einoma, jei tik labai [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":770,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[273,275,283,361,421,422,474,530,531,538,583,612],"class_list":["post-768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tobulejimas","tag-knyga","tag-knygos","tag-knygosapzvalga","tag-meile","tag-olegas-lapinas","tag-olegas-lapinas-vienas-megabaitas-apie-meile","tag-pora","tag-santarve","tag-santykiai","tag-saviugda","tag-supratimas","tag-tobulejimas"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/768","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=768"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/768\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=768"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=768"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=768"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}