{"id":2883,"date":"2023-04-07T15:46:09","date_gmt":"2023-04-07T15:46:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/?p=2883"},"modified":"2023-07-13T12:06:51","modified_gmt":"2023-07-13T12:06:51","slug":"bessel-van-der-kolk-kunas-mena-viska-2-2-3-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/?p=2883","title":{"rendered":"Lyudmila Petranovskaya. Nematomas ramstis: prierai\u0161umas vaiko gyvenime"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Man tai buvo viena geriausi\u0173 knyg\u0173 laukimosi metu. Kod\u0117l? Gird\u0117jau kelias vaik\u0173 ugdymo stovykl\u0173 nuomones. Vieni kartojo, kad vaiko nereikia daug ne\u0161ioti ir glausti, kad jis taip i\u0161lempa, nori daugiau laiko praleisti gl\u0117byje, negeba vienas u\u017emigti. Ir kit\u0105 stovykl\u0105 \u2013 jog vaikus reikia kaip galima daugiau myluoti, suteikti jiems tiek artumo, kiek jie pra\u0161o. \u017dinau savo prigimt\u012f ir stovykl\u0105, kuri\u0105 pasirink\u010diau ir be \u0161ios knygos, ta\u010diau \u201eNematomas ramstis\u201c sud\u0117liojo visas mintis \u012f vietas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar galima \u201esugadinti\u201c vaik\u0105 su per dideliu artumu?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u201eMa\u017eiau prieinam\u0173\u201c t\u0117v\u0173 stovykla teigia, kad patenkindami visus vaiko artumo poreikius juos tik auginame ir tampame priklausomi nuo ma\u017e\u0173j\u0173. Ar b\u016btina migdyti vaik\u0105, ar gana pad\u0117ti j\u012f \u012f lovel\u0119 ir leisti i\u0161siverkti, kol u\u017emigs pats? \u0160ios nuomon\u0117s \u0161alininkai teigia, kad yra atlikti \u012fvair\u016bs tyrimai, kurie patvirtina, jog palikdami vaik\u0105 vien\u0105 tuomet, kai jis pra\u0161o artumo atpratiname b\u016bti ant rank\u0173 bei ma\u017einame t\u0117v\u0173 gl\u0117bio poreik\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ta\u010diau nepaprasta Lyudmilos Petranovskayos knyga \u201eNematomas ramstis\u201c pa\u017evelgia \u012f vaik\u0173 verksm\u0105 ir artumo siekim\u0105 i\u0161 evoliucin\u0117s, i\u0161likimo perspektyvos. K\u016bdikio galimyb\u0117s i\u0161gyventi naujam pasaulyje priklauso nuo j\u012f pri\u017ei\u016brin\u010dio suaugusiojo \u2013 tad versmas yra vienintelis \u012frankis papra\u0161yti to, ko jam reikia \u2013 \u0161ilumos, artumo, maisto ar saus\u0173 patal\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ar taupyti savo gl\u0117b\u012f?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Tikriausiai niekada neteko matyti paauglio, kuris vis dar nori miegoti su t\u0117vais ar b\u016bti ne\u0161iojamas ant rank\u0173. Fizinis artumo poreikis ma\u017e\u0117ja karu su am\u017eiumi, ta\u010diau visi\u0161kai nei\u0161nyksta. Net ir ma\u017eiesiems suaug\u0117liams reikia prisiglaudimo, patap\u0161nojimo per pet\u012f. Vaikas, kurio prierai\u0161umo poreikis yra patenkintas \u2013 laimingas, dr\u0105sus ir savimi pasitikintis vaikas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lyudmila Petranovskaya<\/a> savo knygoje nagrin\u0117ja skirtingo am\u017eiaus vaik\u0173 prierai\u0161um\u0105 ir kartu su pavyzd\u017eiais grind\u017eia savo, kaip psicholog\u0117s, nuomon\u0119. Autor\u0117s po\u017ei\u016bris man buvo itin priimtinas ir atsak\u0117 \u012f daugyb\u0119 svarbi\u0173 klausim\u0173.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Man tai buvo viena geriausi\u0173 knyg\u0173 laukimosi metu. Kod\u0117l? Gird\u0117jau kelias vaik\u0173 ugdymo stovykl\u0173 nuomones. Vieni kartojo, kad vaiko nereikia daug ne\u0161ioti ir glausti, kad jis taip i\u0161lempa, nori daugiau laiko praleisti gl\u0117byje, negeba vienas u\u017emigti. Ir kit\u0105 stovykl\u0105 \u2013 jog vaikus reikia kaip galima daugiau myluoti, suteikti jiems tiek artumo, kiek jie pra\u0161o. \u017dinau […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2885,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,1001],"tags":[273,275,283,1011,1012,1003,1013,1010,612,1008,1009],"class_list":["post-2883","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-knygos","category-tevyste-vaiku-ugdymas","tag-knyga","tag-knygos","tag-knygosapzvalga","tag-lyudmila-petranovskaya","tag-nematomas-ramstis","tag-pazinimas","tag-prieraisumas","tag-tevyste","tag-tobulejimas","tag-vaikai","tag-vaiku-psichologija"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20230323_150834-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2883","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2883"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2883\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2888,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2883\/revisions\/2888"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2883"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2883"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2883"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}