{"id":2663,"date":"2022-09-12T08:29:31","date_gmt":"2022-09-12T08:29:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/?p=2663"},"modified":"2022-09-12T08:29:33","modified_gmt":"2022-09-12T08:29:33","slug":"erich-fromm-menas-myleti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/?p=2663","title":{"rendered":"Erich Fromm. Menas myl\u0117ti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Meil\u0117 \u2013 universalus dalykas, kuris tinka kiekvienam. Gimdamas kiekvienas \u017emogus atsine\u0161a l\u016bkest\u012f, jog bus mylimas, vertinamas ir pripa\u017eintas. Ta\u010diau patiems \u0161io \u012fg\u016bd\u017eio tenka mokintis. Mes ne retai nemokame myl\u0117ti sav\u0119s, o da\u017enu atveju tenka i\u0161mokti myl\u0117ti ir kitus \u017emones jiems suprantama forma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/IMG-0972-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2665\" width=\"330\" height=\"440\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ar meil\u0117 turi skirtingus pavidalus? Erich Fromm savo k\u016brinyje \u201eMenas myl\u0117ti\u201c pateikia skirtingas meil\u0117s formas: motinos, t\u0117vo, meil\u0119 dievui bei meil\u0119 parneriui. Jos visos \u2013 skirtingos, ta\u010diau kartu viena kit\u0105 vienija tuo pa\u010diu tikslu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/kaciapaskaicius.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/20220825_120324-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2667\" width=\"210\" height=\"280\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Skirting\u0173 \u0161eim\u0173 pavyzd\u017eiai byloja tai, apie k\u0105 ra\u0161o Erich Fromm. Motinos meil\u0117s \u2013 bes\u0105lygin\u0117. Ji nekelia joki\u0173 kriterij\u0173 tam, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 i\u0161 pat \u0161irdies gelmi\u0173 myl\u0117ti savo vaikus. Tuo tarpu t\u0117vo meil\u0117 \u00a0yra gr\u012fsta l\u016bkes\u010diais savo at\u017ealoms. I\u0161pild\u0119 i\u0161keltus reikalavimus, t\u0117vai apdovanoja vaikus meile. Tai kartais duoda ir \u0161alutini\u0173 efekt\u0173, nes t\u0117v\u0173 meil\u0117s stokojantys vaikai ima pripa\u017einimo ie\u0161koti kitur ir ne retai j\u0173 \u017eavesio objektu tampa vadovai, darbdaviai ar kiti asmenys, kurie \u012fk\u016bnija t\u0117vo autoritet\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eMenas myl\u0117ti\u201c moko, jog meil\u0117 \u2013 tai pirmiausia yra duoti, o ne imti. Ji n\u0117ra savanaudi\u0161ka. Erich Fromm patvirtina dar filmuose gird\u0117t\u0105 teigin\u012f, jog jei i\u0161 ties\u0173 jauti stiprius jausmus, turi geb\u0117ti mylim\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 paleisti bei duoti jam erdv\u0117s, nes meil\u0117 n\u0117ra savanaudi\u0161ka, kokie kartais tampa \u017emoni\u0173 jausmai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir tai tik kelios \u012f\u017evalgos ir puikios \u201eErich Fromm\u201c knygos Menas myl\u0117ti. Taip, kai kurie skyriai nerado vietos manyje, ta\u010diau ne ma\u017eai puslapi\u0173 \u012fkv\u0117p\u0117 gil\u0173 supratim\u0105, kartais patvirtinim\u0105, o kartais atverdavo naujas po\u017ei\u016bri\u0173 j\u016bras.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Meil\u0117 \u2013 universalus dalykas, kuris tinka kiekvienam. Gimdamas kiekvienas \u017emogus atsine\u0161a l\u016bkest\u012f, jog bus mylimas, vertinamas ir pripa\u017eintas. Ta\u010diau patiems \u0161io \u012fg\u016bd\u017eio tenka mokintis. Mes ne retai nemokame myl\u0117ti sav\u0119s, o da\u017enu atveju tenka i\u0161mokti myl\u0117ti ir kitus \u017emones jiems suprantama forma. Ar meil\u0117 turi skirtingus pavidalus? 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